慈母多败儿

慈母多败儿
It is always said and heard of a over kind and give in parents will yield the rebellious and disappointed child.

People always say that 3y.o. is the monster year, now mommy really experience it now...

Eeanne was recently recovered from her 9 days viral gastroenteritis, 1st experience with such a long duration suffering, she had everyone's 100% attention and so...."manja". Eeanne has been so used to her "manja" skill after her recovery and ridiculously uncontrollable. She has becomes extremely stubborn, rude, no manners (even raised up her hand attempted to beat mommy when get scolded) and ignorance, she can really makes mommy's temper boiling up to the maximum.

"Rotan" still will be the best solution to put Eeanne unwillingly under control, sometimes no choice mommy has to use threatening words (it is bad although), Eeanne will obey with reluctant facial expression with her own mumbo jumbo words.

Sometimes mommy will threaten Eeanne that mommy will no longer love her (this threat is Eeanne's #1 fear), she will cry, drag and hug mommy for love, sometimes very kesian to see her reacted like this and mommy will give in finally, after a few advice, hopefully that she will understand her fault, then immediately she will cause mommy's another wave of volcano eruption!!

One morning, mommy used the same threat and said:
Mommy: if you still behave this way, mommy will not sayang you anymore
Eeanne(acting very cool): never mind, I go back Indonesia with kakak"

Mommy almost fainted with Eeanne's reply, can't believe this came out from a 3y.o. girl...

Oh no....help....
Mommy really has to be stern and not to pamper Eeanne too much, mommy is so worry that Eeanne will turn into a rebellious and unguidable girl in her teenage years. I believe this is the #1 fear for all the mummies.

So mommy's new added resolution for this year is ....to seriously look into and train Eeanne's discipline.

May Eeanne be a filial piety and well-mannered girl...sadhu, sadhu, sadhu....